Why Marriages Fail ( Not Success )

     Marriage should be one of the main event or happy thing in each our life. But today’s society people change to another for to find a better person for their life, because of their marriage relationship all falling apart. Before I going a further to tell why marriage is failing I will tell you what should be a real relationship.       

     The relationship between a man and a woman, in marriage is possibly the most important and powerful relationship two people can experience. The marriage relationship, as God planned it, has the potential for the greatest experience of intimacy, companionship, partnership, mutual support, protection, pleasure, enjoyment and productivity of any human relationship. A good marriage is a wonderful blessing and an unparalleled treasure for the husband and wife. A strong, growing, loving marriage is also the encouragement environment in which children succeed and grow to be healthy, responsible adults. This Picture should be one example of real marriage .

 Nobody wants to fail their marriage. But it takes the effort of both the partners to make a marriage happy and successful one. There can be a lot reasons why a marriage fails.  Some of the reason that which causes that marriage fails are.

1.  Lack of trust
2.  Unrealistic expectations (Thinks differently)
3.  Inability to handle responsibility
4.  Depending on the spouse for everything
5. Not having personal happiness (No Sex)
6. Dripping secrets ( sharing personal information to family members  and friends. cannot keep the secrets or promise)
7. Lack of communication or understanding with spouse
8. Money issues
9. Spending too much time apart from each other
10. Criticizing and irritating your partner too much, also attitude problems
11. Not consulting to your partner before any decision. ( Makes their own decision )
12. Not doing the little things. 

     These are only a few reasons why marriage fails; there are many other reasons too. Now this problem grows up very fast and globalizes every part of the world now. For example, one of my neighbor divorced for no specific reason. The problems are lack of communication, spending too much time apart from each other, and lack of trust. He is Eye physician and she is sales manager. They both work so hard for to earn money, but less time being together. He told us that when he calls her she not picking the phone, but when he ask her why not picking the phone then she said she is working. He not believing what she saying, he thinks she is lying and cheating on him. There should be a least one verbally fight in week about this incident. In the end the both couple end up in divorce court and finally divorced.

     

This problem can be easily solve by talk each other while both of them relaxing or when they were going out. but it doesn't happen. So please don’t be make stupid mistake like these people did or anything that I put in top. Marriage should be is one of the happiest moment and happiest thing in our life. Keeps your relationship safely and be love one another. So you don’t have look for another partner for your life, enjoy with what you had...

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Gender

By: Sandra Feliciano

Gender is defined as socially learned expectations and behaviors associated with members of each sex. Society uses this definition to determine the gender of someone and to judge people on how they act.

Even before a child is born, people set up expectations for that child based on its gender. We teach girls and boys how to act according to gender and what toys to play with and what clothes to wear. We look negatively on boys that want to wear girl’s clothes or play with girls toys. But girls who may be tomboys are not scrutinized. Society drills in us these gender norms all throughout our lives and it makes anyone who doesn’t follow those to be excluded and made to feel as if they are wrong and/or bad.

Canadian Family Keep Infants Gender a Secret

So how do we change these gender norms and stereotypes to allow people to feel free and comfortable to be themselves when most of us in some ways believe these norms to be appropriate? There is a family in Canada that is breaking the gender roles with their children by withholding the sex of their newborn. They are choosing to raise their children “gender neutral”. They are choosing to allow their children to discover who they are themselves and not by the labels given to them by society. Their other sons are allowed to pick their own clothes in either the girls or boys section, play with whatever toys they chooses, and wear their hair the way they want.  The children are encouraged to express themselves and discover who they are while being aware that people might not be so accepting of their choices.

Are there any consequences to allowing gender lines to be blurred? Yes. Society has been so accustomed to the “normal” roles of men and women that change will not always be looked at positively. Society will initially reject those who are different until more education and awareness is brought to them. So even though these parents in Canada are allowing their children to make their own choices about who they are, they are also setting their kids up to be hurt by others treatment.

So which is better? To instill in your child the norms and roles of a person of their sex despite what they may feel? Or to allow your child to choose who they will be despite the sex they were born? I think that there should be limits to what we teach our children and a certain amount of freedom we should give them to make their own decisions. But until people become more open minded, we have to protect our child and make them aware that people may be hurtful. We should also teach our children to be happy with whom they are and for ourselves to be happy and accepting of whom are children are.