Marriage should be one
of the main event or happy thing in each our life. But today’s society people
change to another for to find a better person for their life, because of their
marriage relationship all falling apart. Before I going a further to tell why
marriage is failing I will tell you what should be a real relationship.
The relationship between
a man and a woman, in marriage is possibly the most important and powerful
relationship two people can experience. The marriage relationship, as God
planned it, has the potential for the greatest experience of
intimacy, companionship, partnership, mutual support, protection, pleasure,
enjoyment and productivity of any human relationship. A good marriage is a
wonderful blessing and an unparalleled treasure for the husband and wife. A
strong, growing, loving marriage is also the encouragement environment in which
children succeed and grow to be healthy, responsible adults. This
Picture should be one example of real marriage .
Nobody wants to
fail their marriage. But it takes the effort of both the partners to make a
marriage happy and successful one. There can be a lot reasons why a marriage
fails. Some of the reason that which causes that marriage fails are.
- Lack of trust
- Unrealistic expectations (Thinks differently)
- Inability to handle responsibility
- Depending on the spouse for everything
- Not having personal happiness (No Sex)
- Dripping secrets ( sharing personal information to family members and friends. cannot keep the secrets or promise)
- Lack of communication or understanding with spouse
- Money issues
- Spending too much time apart from each other
- Criticizing and irritating your partner too much, also attitude problems
- Not consulting to your partner before any decision. ( Makes their own decision )
- Not doing the little things.
These are only a few reasons why marriage fails;
there are many other reasons too. Now this problem grows up very fast and
globalizes every part of the world now. For example, one of my neighbor divorced for no specific reason. The problems are lack of communication,
spending too much time apart from each other, and lack of trust. He is Eye
physician and she is sales manager. They both work so hard for to earn money,
but less time being together. He told us that when he calls her she not picking
the phone, but when he ask her why not picking the phone then she said she is
working. He not believing what she saying, he thinks she is lying and cheating
on him. There should be a least one verbally fight in week about this incident.
In the end the both couple end up in divorce court and finally divorced.
This problem can be easily solve by talk each other while both of them relaxing or when they were going out. but it doesn't happen. So please don’t be make stupid mistake like these people did or anything that I put in top. Marriage should be is one of the happiest moment and happiest thing in our life. Keeps your relationship safely and be love one another. So you don’t have look for another partner for your life, enjoy with what you had...
This problem can be easily solve by talk each other while both of them relaxing or when they were going out. but it doesn't happen. So please don’t be make stupid mistake like these people did or anything that I put in top. Marriage should be is one of the happiest moment and happiest thing in our life. Keeps your relationship safely and be love one another. So you don’t have look for another partner for your life, enjoy with what you had...
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