Gender is not valued or weighed by an individuals genitalia or sexuality but is constructed by what our culture labels us and how one should act or carry themselves according to your gender.
Our social institution is what shapes us into who we are, how we are suppose to dress, act, eat, walk the toys a boy or girl is suppose to play with and even down to what jobs are compatible for your gender.
In this Disney Cartoon video girls are taught to be soft spoken, kind, weak, sensitive, pretty, submissive and to stay at home and take care of the children. While boys are taught to be strong, manly, tough, leaders, aggressive and also the bread-winner of the household.
Society should let an individual decide for themselves how we want to carry ourselves in our western society and not be constructed to what they considered to be the norm for a boy or girl. We all have our own minds and we have a sense of what we can or candle not handle be it a job, profession or just being head of the household. Gender socialization is the way society wants to try and control the way we think and that's basically through the media, schools, home and rap videos.